In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. I attracted those people in my relationship. This is all the 12th house stuff, and why dreams can be healing and why this house can offer us healing. My Pluto sextiles his Moon and Venus and opposes his NN. I feel I cannot even hide from him. They may feel a strong sense of familiarity or a deep emotional bond that is difficult to explain. We have our moons in each others first houses which for my cancer stellium does a lot, and he has mars and venus in my 7th house. I couldn't forget him until now. Such as unconditonal love, romance, spirituality, and discovering each others gifts and talents and putting them to use. Kinda like that, it can be magical, spiritual, and present us with unconditonal love that wasn't meant to live in this world. why am I'm alone. In a synastry chart, Venus in the 12th House can indicate a spiritual or karmic connection between the two individuals. Hi, Feeling. I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. Your email address will not be published. 12th house is not the greatest for expression i am afraid. It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. Strangely enough, I found that I had this very weird feeling of being ill for a couple days and almost felt like I might pass out, but it wasn't like it really felt like I was ill (difficult to explain.) Venus conjunct Venus is really good, you will like many of the same things and go about love a similar way. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 12th house isnt only secrecy and I rarely see it that way 12th house synastry is beyond limits. No idea if I appear in his?! Those this mean that he's thinking about me a lot too? so the judging becomes like, omg i am judging myself kind of thing lol I beleive this is mostly for those aware and can face truth/accept themselves however greatly flawed and love themselves. There are two zodiac signs associated with Venus in astrology. I've never felt such a connection before, the passion too. I act so stupid around him and he makes it hard for me to think properly at all. The 12th house is highly psychic and deeply spiritual. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. He turned out to be one dark character and a real piece of work, and it took me nearly 3 years with all SORTS of ups and downs, bumps and bruises, to get over him so that I could outs him from my spirit. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. Its really SOMETHING, and at times its like being on a roller coaster ride. Also VenusianMoon, the outside person (your boyfriend?) The last one who was a crush had his Leo sun in my 12th. Ill blink and its 1am. This house holds many lifetimes of memories. Hes cuddly and affectionate so that makes up for it. Mars, however, reveals how you express your sex drive and how you go about getting what you want. My Sun, Venus and MErcury are in Aries and fall into his 12th, my moon in Sagittarius falls int his 7th and 8th and his moon in Scorpio into my 5th and his jupiter into my 1st. Combust! More so after 15 years. I felt, I felt sooo hard, in a glance, while looking in his eyes, and feeling like I had know this person for ages. I dont have other words for that. Why this could be happen? Then when I tell him, he has this quiet way of breaking through all the **** and getting to the heart of it, but in a really gentle way. It could be a not-so-good thing if you feel vulnerable or exposed or even if you just get irritated from him. I have a venus in capricornso yes it is hard for me to let my feelings out..I don't expect to say I love youI just assume you should know it by my actions but for me on the other hand, I would need some reassurance from my partner. He is a Scorpio sun conjunct Pluto, Moon square Pluto (a magnet) with Mars in Libra conjunct Mercury. Thanks for being so detailed. It lasted for a year and we functioned well in the one-on-one, but had trouble integrating it with our lives. I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. W. hen someone's Venus falls in your 1st house, that person probably finds you physically attractive. He bitches if i drink too much wine lol. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. this was all chinese for him but for me it was the confirmation Of I had felled. Are Venus Pluto Contacts In Synastry Problematic? How do you reckon you and him approach 12th house matters like spirituality, illusion, Neptune stuff? But what made it all so compelling, is that I REMEMBERED HIM FROM TWO PAST LIVES when we were mates!! I really have no idea whats going on but we have crazy placements, if anyone wants to discuss further please let me know!! Sometimes because we were deluded by the other, sometimes because we deluded ourselves, or saw things that were not really there at all, we felt they were, but that's not what they were. The Sun person sees in the 11th house person someone, who they can spend pleasant time with. He does tell me how he feels about me. But I was raised by a Sun/Scorpio mother (with her Moon in Sagittarius) and Virgo ASC. I have something of a business relationship with someone. Specific to you, the overlay situation might have some play here, but my guess is that theres more to this story. I don't know. It is strange how much this makes sense: I have my moon in his 12 house and he's got his Neptune in my 12. Lol. That said, I do know something about this. Venus is a beneficial planet in astrology. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. His Mars conjunct my Saturn opposite my Pluto. Disappointments come because we think there is something more even when the person has clearly said there's not. So Im confused about being confused lol Im dating someone all of our planets are 12th house but my natal chart is 12th house filled already.. everyone in his family knows about me and everyone in my family knows about him they know were also expecting a baby and so does social media lol .. With him, it's never "goodbye," no matter what. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. I still dont know WHY that occurred . There is definitely potential for dishonesty(especially Mars) so one partner could be dishonest or cheat on the other. Conjunct Venus' are often found in long term relationships. I resonate with the guy you wrote about in your article. These are unconscious impulses as well as the forbidden desires at least tried to suppress. It doesn't necessarily have to do with verbal flattery but the presentation, image or interaction boosts the House. Any info i'll share with you later. You are using an out of date browser. You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. Now i understand the mystery of the house that touch our soul. I ran into him the other day out of the blue and he said hi but it was too painful for me to even confront him and I was so mad for so long. It's amazing. Venus trine Pluto, sun and Saturn trine. I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. =). Some are evil and just want to get in your pants. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. SYNASTRY: VENUS IN THE HOUSES. Never felt this way in my life. I love him so much, I dont even know what to do with myself. I also cant tell you, definitively, how theyre experienced by the person who has their twelfth house activated. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. Often taking hour long walks around town/woods just the two of us, talking endlessly.I just see ALL this Neptunian energy and wonder if there is even a point of pursuing him that way rather than just staying really, really good friends. This woman matched all of his criteria (tall, slim & fair). Either come correct or go away. He has trouble verbalizing his feelings but he said he's always been like that. Yet and still I have been in love with him for going on over 2 years. His mars is in my 12th house. Accept all plexaderm rapid reduction serum in india Manage preferences. My 12th-Houser Sun/Gem Moon/Sag BROUGHT OUT MY OWN GEMINI COMPORTMENT, and then I also remembered that I had started out as Twins but that my Twin didnt make it in the womb. I could feel something so deep. The 12th House is also known as the House of mystery while Venus symbolizes intuition and artful communication. He told you that he is not in love with you. What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. Ive always been madly in love with him, andhe claims he isntbut his actions speak otherwise. JavaScript is disabled. Hi Aida! the assumptions of the worst. Lot's of non-verbal communicating. My Gemini sun is in my 12th house on the Gemini/Cancer cusp. Yes gifts can be found, but contrarily mental illness, sexual issues, drugs and alchohol issues, you name it it's all here too. I feel like he's not being completely honest with me and himself about how he feels about me. It can point to an affair or clandestine encounter. The general claim is that it disturbs the person whose twelfth house is activated. Look for hard aspects from his venus to your planets. And there is a very strong square between his Mars and my own, which creates a lot of stress between us at times, and his Saturn is square my Venus. lol He also has his Mercury conjuncting my Sun in the 8th house and his Venus conjuncts my Venus as well as his Mars conjuncts my Mars. It's true this house can be heavy, it's the house of hospitals, psychotherapist, prisons, too. Ha interesting this 12th house isn't it? You have a tendency to fall in love with people who re not available, and . First of all i think in this case venus is in the 1st house. Birthday Report Package Deluxe Transit Report 1 Year Get A Natal Chart ReportProgressed Chart Report Deluxe Asteroids Report Get A Solar Return Report Get A Lunar Return Report Child Natal Report 1 Year Transit Report Outer Planets, Find Your Soulmate Saturn Transit the 12th House Using Astrology To Get What You Want, Predicting Violence In Relationship: Mars in Synastry. And the worst part is I cant tell if hes going to be my salvation or my greatest self sabotage and final, complete ruination of my life. Men take longer to grow up emotionally. and it was unreal and he sat down at our table and I felt like my entire body was on fire. The 12th house person can annoy Mars because of the lack of immediate action. you just have to separate your spirit from them somehow, as that seems to be the deepest connection between you and them. If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. Hi Aida! Friendship Argh Making me suck because I still have high hopes . ), but at the same time on his POSITIVE/GOOD TWIN sign I recognized parts of myself that were. Without remorse, without emotional pain, without what ifs. Please also note that having Venus in the 12th means very little without a lot of context. I really like the Leo energy. But Tabitha seems to attract controlling lovers (maybe she has Pluto in her 7th House). You will not regret it. Mine lasted for nearly 3 years amid a ton of torment, aching for his love, trying to understand the hostility, the mental/spiritual abuse, trying to help him .. all SORTS of goodies/1 In the end, it was me that jumped ship; who needs that kind of nonsense in ones life? And that he doesn't know what is good for him. Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. Posts: 15From: united statesRegistered: Jun 2013. I would love to here anyone's feedback. When we are together its like time is nothing. It's such a surreal feeling. He was so familiar, which I think it's because of the NN connections. Told him, but am sure he did not get it, but Im sure it made for interesting playback. In this case, the partner will have different tastes. Posts: 1873From: GeorgiaRegistered: May 2009. there are two people who have venus in my 12th i just adore. Its vague, wet, murky and the fog is dense, we need to rely on our intuition, but our intuition is skewed here, so what is one to do? I often attract men who has Leo personal planets which falls in my 12th house. Well, your handle actually matches his Cancer placements, as the Keywords for Cancer is I FEEL, and that is the key to him. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had. . Yes i do believe it possible to work even if you have not physically met as crazy as that sounds, my experience with this house has shown it to be a very magical house, that has roots in the past. Hi, Name Again. I felt this awful DREAD of him mixed in with the deep love longings that I held in my heart, and would just burst out CRYING whenever I felt his spirit coming near me. I can relate to most that has been said: Psychic, Fated, Spiritual, highly-accepting, Secretive & perhaps in ways obsessional/unrequited. But it just feels like i knew him before. Sent 5 times a week. He always wants to make sure im not hungry and that i have money on me. His acts of ghosting you and shutting you down via social media makes me think that he might also be a tad sociopathic thats a common trait. How does it affect synastry when one partners personal planets land in the others 12th house? However, I still cannot get him out of my headlike there is no better man out there. It proves that Venus is created for sharing purity, love, and spirituality in the world, when in a good state. I either lied to myself or the other was lying to me and it was very difficult and painful to deal with. Everything has a timing. So, it's painful when such love is not returned, like part of me is out there without a chance of getting it back.Lilly, Oh my.what a 12th house story:) this house leaves a deep imprint and we are often left with longings for what could have been. The 12th House!! Hello Everyone,I can relate to alot of the post that I've read. I started seeing a guy whose Venus is in my 12th house as well as his Mercury in my 12th house. He also has his natal Sun, Venus and Mercury in his 12th house. It's like the cuddling is saved for when the other really needs it. You find yourself so drawn to them, and you will find them irresistible. It was a weird sort of dance, attract/ repulse. You got bit BAD by the oh-so charismatic, elusive 12th Houser! There will defo be issues and concerns regarding faithlessness, as Gemini males are often butterflies flitting from flower to flower chasing that honey, lol!!! When wondering around in someones 12th or they in yours? Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. This is because there are endless ways these things can play. I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. Horoscope, dating, astrology, forecast, relationships | 12andus Juno in Twelfth House. The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. We had an affair that was hidden, even though I would have given everything to be with him full time. I can confirm that he appears in my dreams often and usually these are precognitive dreams. At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. No way, jose. We re still connected somehow bit in a weird way :(. Hi thank you for visiting! But I ve never felt what I have felt for this other guy..and still sometimes feel. He could not and cannot change . Jupiter i Mars is aggressive by nature but the sign and house, and aspects made to him will alter how he plays out in synastry. My 12th Houser actually taught and showed me the GEMINI IN ME that I was in denial of. So the conversations might be heavy and deep, or they are at least exposing of one whether good or bad. It's all about 12th house. But yet together telepathically and spirtually. Thats an aspect of a battle between the Mars person & the 12th house person. Required fields are marked *. Oh yes i read about that but hes not like that at all. All information I have is the planet can see through the house person like cristal. I think anyway 12th house is involved. Anyone else care to share? I loved his soul. Someone help Ive done so much research on this but I was with this guy for like a year and then he ghosted me, disappeared deleted all social media, but I still dream about him and think about him frequently and its been 3 years. Just not every second. I've noticed a few times I have had this placement with somone I care very deeply about, but for some reason the feelings are never mutual. Unless he is catering to the spiritual side of you, its just not a good place for Mars to be in. but I must admit they FASCINATE me!! The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. ( also his merc, pluto and uranus are in my 12th). I have also experienced it as not wanting anyone to know about the relationship or not knowing where you stand. few months later he married her. Hi GeminiRising! I only noticed it after my 12th-Houser came into my life and affected me deeply that is when my own natal Gemini placement came out in me full and strong. Hes a vampire and hes not worth it. I cared abt him so much but I read that the mars person is the antagonist. Be direct, ask questions, dig deep, ask for proof and confirmation. I will try to expand on it in greater detail for ya, so check back:). I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. i did not have any dreams of them. It's strange that i always dream about him. Knowflake. like sort of obession, that I can not let go off. Can someone help shed some light to what it means? Positive aspects and conjunctions between Venus' show that the two people view love in a very similar way. When someone's planet (s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. 6 Keeping the Flame Alive. ------------------Air woman. Spirtual, Telepathic, Emotionally, Karmic, & Soulful. Months passed, in where I was writing him letters, telling him about life, telling him about astrology. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. My ex-12th Houser has Venus/Cancer which made it difficult for him to open up, unless it was totally on HIS terms. On top of this, his Pluto is either square or conjunction my NN, Im pretty sure its the square. Explore the synastry between you and your partner Composite Chart / Synastry Report Bundle. It's difficult to let go with the person who touch our 12th house. Its surprising how much love I have for him but it all seems so complicated in his head/heart that I choose not to act on my feelings and just let time do its job. Maybe my cancer north node and his venus in cancer helps things. HI, ELSA!! He understands me in a very deep level. However, I am sorry for your pain, and I guess the upside is you don't need to be deceived anymore the truth is out. Does that sound reasonable with his neptune being in my 12th house? even when its painful between us this pull makes me want to continue with him so I did not want him to feel my pain yet he could and tried to finish things cos of itbut then we couldnt seem to leave them for more than 3 days anyway, Yep not sure what to call it a relationship, love,, obsession, infatuation, One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. We have other aspects in synastry that are more positive, but the Mars issues come up a lot. November 9, 2012 astrologyanonymous27 5 Comments. i also met someone else in between all this somewhere who also had venus in my 12th who i had a lot of weird occurences with. If the person is a good person they can point out our weaknesses and bring them to light so we can move forward with the knowledge that they have to help us be more aware of our unconscious behaviors. OH! Some dont want to, ever. ive seen it many times in others too. The 12th house Synastry: Love behind the scenes. How is in your case? I feel lost a lot of the time, but feel even more lost and dead inside whenever I walk away from him, but I never stay gone for too long, even though I claim I will never come back. What activity do you have going on between your S.O. Its like the subconscious need to help him grow as a person. The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. I dont feel he doesnt love me enough. The Venus person will like the way you conduct yourself, your . Their is so much fear between us. You are using an out of date browser. DUBLIGATO all OVAH the place, lol!!! Just a added general observation for everyone. Thanks Zahara, what you say makes sense. Best wishes to you dear, you will find the right one for you, be patient and don't accept anything less! She longs for a partner who will just let her "be": someone who will go with the flow, and give her plenty of alone time (12th House natal planets often demand periods of isolation). Conversely, he denies my physical needs. Nonetheless it offers us the opportunity to heal karma, overcome our fears, uncover hidden talents and gifts, and to truly see the mystical, magical spiritual world. Each person shares secrets, and even unconsciously. I know exactly what you mean and boy is it hard to wrap your head around 12th house connections, there are other worldly and they leave a deep impression that is hard to shake off. But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. Uck. ouch ouch! Or someone is misleading someone (deliberately or otherwise). It is also present in my relationship. It is sometimes necessary to give people the spacevthey need, even if it hurts. A recent look at someone else's synastry made me question this placement. I then felt like the reason why it felt strange to me seemed to be that I was picking up his symptoms rather than experiencing illness myself (there was also "a fog" kind of feel to it too.) Obsessive, perhaps a bit and with your planets in the 8th I am sure it's not one way:). As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheavenif somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, Im gone. This is the 1st time I've ever felt like I've met my other half.. my soulmate. There are times I don't trust him - through no actual fault of his own, btw - and others where I just feel loved in the most basic way. he still talks with a kind voice which i hate of being him a hypocrite.what does the whole thing means? I made our synastry. But I have to work with him and Im afraid he can realize and maybe use this against me. Positively both can help the other overcome their fears, discover hidden talents, or gifts. the Venus person is allured into the partner's magical 12th house and held a dear captive there, but in NO way the Venus person would admit (willingly) that they have such strong feelings of love and adoration for the 12th house person. Here is a formula: Unless a guy acknowledges his feelings for you within a month, maybe 2 months (or 10+ dates) of serious dating openly, plainly, simply, without subtext, without mindgames or alternate plan Bs in his head,drop him. I knew he got around a lot so I was always afraid of letting him in but Im afraid I caused all the distance. He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. I dont think it was his fault he told me he was going through a lot and I know he was but he asked me be friends which I thought was friend zoning me but he has aquarius descendant and he told me to watch this movie afyer he asked to be fruends where the opening line was friends cant be friends and have sex and he said he wasnt done having sex.

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